How Much Can You Handle Right Now?

I’m writing this post as a reminder to myself and other people because it is something I would want to read when I feel like this. This being You feel like you are at the edge of your limit. The human body and mind fascinates me sometimes. It’s like occasionally life throws so many things our way that we don’t know what has hit us. Some of us cry, some of us shout, some get angry, and some just laugh.

I’m not going to lie life is pretty darn crazy right now – with work and university and wedding planning. There never seem to be enough hours in a day. I feel like in this season of my life right now, I am learning about myself and the people around me in ways that I could only learn by going through this.

You really do need to go through times of extreme stress, anxiety and total vulnerability to realise what you cling onto in life or more importantly who you hold onto to. As much as I can complain about certain things going on right now and how I JUST WANT MORE TIME TO PLAN MY WEDDING AND BE WITH MY LOVED ONES (I swear I’m not bridezilla..), I was reminded of something…

Golden Hour Girl. The girl I created on here and strive to be everyday. Yep – everyday. Even when I don’t want to be. As lame as it is, its become a catch phrase with my closest ones. When I’m down or stressed or feel like I just can’t handle anymore, my boy or family member will say – What would Golden Hour Girl do? Lame, I know, but it makes me think.

Usually whenever I write my blog posts I’m on a high. So I think aspirational and happy and empowered thoughts. And that’s who I want to be everyday, no matter what is happening. I want to be Golden Hour Girl – the girl in the most vibrant and striking part of her life. Constantly pushing to be better, see better and act better. I want to be excited about everyday and not let worries take their hold of me. I want to live a life free, free to be who I really am and not worried about the future. I want to be friendly and loving and above all INSPIRE people through the way I live.

Because life is just flying by and I don’t want to reach the end regretting I didn’t live my life 100% how I wanted to, smiling, laughing and loving everyday.

So how about you? Who are you going to be right now when you just can’t handle anymore?

I’m going to finish with some pictures that make me happy 🙂 I hope they bring some sunshine to your day too.

Love xx

Flowers make any day a good day.